How To Flirt With Women

How To Flirt With Women

When you flirt with women does it lack sexual tension, and border on a job interview?

When you flirt with women do you wish you had the flirting power that some of the actor’s have in movies?

When you flirt with women do you wonder why some guys have girls hanging off them, and some struggle?

When you flirt with women are you TOO cocky in conversations, and you can feel it working until you hit a nerve and realize… not again?

Flirting is easily the hardest concept for men to get who struggle with women, dating and relationships. Most men lack the ability to understand it, and then how to work with it. The primary way to influence sexual tension is to flirt with women.

Sexual tension is essentially when there exists polarity, magnetism or, as we like to call it, “attraction”. The largest misnomer that exists is that one can create attraction – this is FALSE. Do I have your attention now? Attraction is based on polarity and magnetism, NOT on the external elements you are probably obsessed with right now…”what do I say”, “what should I wear”, “how should I stand”…

In short, flirting is where we push away with our words, and pull towards with our energy. So, a classic scenario is where the man treats the woman as being slightly beneath him in coolness (I emphasize slightly, as too much comes across as cocky – which signals insecurity). You might call her a “dork”, while smiling at her – the word “dork” is an insult, but the smile is an invitation.

It takes some balls to flirt with women, as it indicates automatically a sexual interest, which is uncomfortable for many men. What you are looking for are opportunities to insult her, point out her flaws (not physical, of course), treat her like a little sister that you don’t take seriously. Do all of this though with a SMILE – you don’t want to be taken at face value here. By pushing/pulling all in one we mix brain signals, and engage her emotionally. This is the clearest way to communicate that you are comfortable around her, and that she can be comfortable around you too.

The best flirting comments are created in the moment, based on what she is revealing to you about herself at that moment. Flirting is basically the art of insulting, but doing so with a smile.
Examples of How To Flirt With Women

(If she is asking lots of “testy” questions) “How much will you pay me once I pass the job interview?”
(then, if she continues asking questions, refer to her as “Sir”)

Now, if you struggle when you flirt with women, I suggest this and practicing them on women LIVE. I strongly believe in using the scripts from the seduction community to learn the SKILLS – but then drop the training wheels. So, the above should get you started at least. What you are looking for though is the FEELING of flirting – so, when is there an opportunity to flirt with women? How does it feel to do it? What are her reactions to the things I say? Am I coming across too harshly? IS SHE HAVING FUN??

Ultimately, if YOU are having fun then you will definitely translate your sense of humor clearly. If you are inexperienced, you are likely to mix the signals. But, guess what, you might have to bomb a time or two in order to clean up your signals – there is no replacement for live experience.

If you can do this a few times, you will start to “GET IT” and your flirting skills with women will explode.

Become a “flirt with women” machine, because you’ll use it constantly in the interaction. It’s an essential step that most guys tend to skip, or FAIL at miserably.

Source: www.seduction-chronicles.net

How To Attract Women

How To Attract Women

I’m going to reveal the most fool-proof way to attract women. You want to attract women in droves so I’ll teach you exactly how to attract women. Think about this. Why do women you see out at bars and nightclubs sometimes dress so SEXY? Let’s think about it from the woman’s perspective: An attractive woman gets attention from men all the time, no matter WHAT she’s wearing.

Attractive women don’t have to “accent” their beauty in order to attract men. A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation to make herself “one cup size” larger. A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes. A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out, and puts on tons of makeup. AND FOR WHAT?

Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and effort, spending HOURS to get that “extra little bit” of beauty, when a woman already has “more than enough”? Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.
To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The Best Man

Let’s imagine that an attractive woman is getting ready to go to a party. There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred women at this party. If there are going to be a hundred men at this party, it follows that a few of those men are going to be the “best” ones.

She wants the “best” one… if possible. And that guy has OPTIONS. She needs to “fix herself up”, EVEN THOUGH SHE’S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL… if she wants to have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.

Competition From Other Women

This particular idea was one of the most interesting and surprising things I learned about women while I was educating myself about dating and attraction. Attractive women tend to be VERY competitive. While in Los Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called “The Bitch Look”. When a “hot” woman walks into a room, EVERYONE checks her out.

The “top guys”, who have options, glance at her and make a “mental note” to talk to her later. The OTHER hot women look at her and give her… yep, you guessed it…. THE BITCH LOOK. Why?

Because another hot woman is instantly seen as COMPETITION. A hot woman doesn’t want OTHER hot women competing with her for the “best guys”. So they give other women “bitch looks”. It’s competition, intimidation, and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package. So let’s just say that attractive women DON’T LIKE COMPETITION. In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX THEMSELVES UP… and emphasize their good points TO THE MAX. When an already-beautiful woman goes to the trouble to pick out just the right clothes… the ones that flatter her figure… and put on just the right makeup… in a way that draws attention to her finer points… and styles her hair… in a way that draws attention to her and frames her face, it puts her ABOVE the competition.
To Get The Most Attention And Approval

Now that we’ve talked about a couple of the underlying reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason that has the most VALUE to you. This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING beautiful women.

At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

It just so happens that an attractive woman has a SUBCONSCIOUS, but VERY accurate indicator of whether or not “the group” likes and approves of her. It’s the amount of ATTENTION she gets. If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps her feeling “OK”. She knows that on a deep, primal level when she’s accepted by the group and that she’s going to stay healthy and have a good chance of mating with a “top male”.

But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to it, and don’t they all?

Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals), attention and approval can lead to a literal ADDICTION.

It’s like money, fame, power… all the famous ones… YOU CAN’T GET ENOUGH. If you’re a beautiful woman who is always getting attention and approval from men and you meet a man who DOESN’T give you that attention and approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.

If the man you’re interacting with actively AVOIDS giving you attention, and gives you DISAPPROVAL in the right way, it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS. Attractive women don’t meet a lot of guys that could care less about her beauty, and instead see it as a “cover up” for some “hidden” thing.

If you want to learn how to ATTRACT women, then you need to get a clue about what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one of the most “desirable” men.

How can you do that?

Become rich and famous

or

Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt

or

Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.

Here’s the interesting thing when you attract women: When you do it, she can’t CONTROL it.

When you attract women, I’ll guarantee you that she didn’t “THINK about it and DECIDE to feel it”. I guarantee you that she can’t CHANGE IT by THINKING ABOUT IT. And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER this “automatic and subconscious” physical and emotional response called attraction IS? It has something to do with these two concepts we’ve been talking about: ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

If you’re interacting with an unusually attractive woman, it’s VERY important that you don’t communicate to her that you are “overwhelmed by her beauty”… or that you can’t control yourself. Furthermore, if you actively control the amount of attention that you give her… and you don’t show her “approval” too quickly (and even show her some DISAPPROVAL)… you’ll often create a POWERFUL interest inside of her.

Why is this?

Well, think about it for a minute. You’re the hot woman walking into the “sausage party”. For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk up to you and say, “You’re really hot” and “Can I get you a drink?”

Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can’t stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you make it clear that they would be willing to do anything for you.

Then you meet a guy that isn’t like any of these other guys AT ALL.

He’s clearly not impressed with your beauty, and he’s even busting your balls. You can’t tell if he likes you or not, and you feel CHALLENGED by him. For some reason you can’t explain, you’re starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him. NOW what do you do? That’s right: You give him all of YOUR attention and approval… hoping that he will give YOU some in return. In other words, you switch from the one being pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.

This is how you attract women. You become the pursued, which is an art form. When you attract women you have more control in your life. When you attract women you feel better. When you attract women you can focus on things that matter. As you attract women you’ll notice a difference in everything. Why? It’s why we exist.

If you’re new to seduction and dating you owe it to yourself to check some videos of David Deangelo, he’s a big name around here.

Source: www.seduction-chronicles.net

How To Approach Women

How To Approach Women

You should realize before you approach women that most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing: Dumb look, compliment. Also, you can’t BORE when you first approach women. If she’s most likely got a boring life like everyone else, and you do something that every one of the other 499 guys she’s going to walk by this month did, then you’re probably not going to attract any special attention. If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.

This is fun, isn’t it? Bet you never thought you’d be thinking like a woman, did ya? What are a few things you might do to? Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring, predictable, “nice” loser guys that have approached her? And BE interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice in her life?

As you may have already predicted, I have a few more ideas (but don’t let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance). To start with, you’d probably want to get rid of the “Wow, you’re a beautiful woman, and I’m just an average guy admiring you” vibe. That’s not helping. Next, you could take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might act, then choose that style.

My experience is that if you take an attitude of “I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let’s see if you have a personality to match your looks”, then stir in a generous portion of Cocky and Funny, you’re likely to do well.
A Sample Conversation on How To Approach Women

Here’s a variation of something I’ve used myself once or twice.

YOU: “Hey, can I ask you a quick question?”
[leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow]

HER: “Sure”

[pause.. pause.. pause for suspense]

YOU: “Are you single?” [stone cold straight face]

HER: “Well, um…”

YOU: “I’ll take that as a yes…” [nodding, sly smile]

HER: [Laugher]

YOU: “Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you… if you’re more than just a pretty face, that is… He’s funny, has great taste, and I think you’d like him… I’d love to sit down and get your life story, but I’m on my way somewhere… do you have email?” [very cool, calm tone of voice]

HER: “Yes.”

YOU: Great… [takes out pen]… write it down for me, and I’ll have, uh [clears throat] HIM send you an email.”

[Get email and get her phone number and wish the lady a good day.]

Now, let’s talk about what just happened here. First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that “I’m not worthy”? I said, “Hey, can I ask you a quick question?” in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and mysterious tone of voice (your body language is a VERY important component of this approach).

Source: www.seduction-chronicles.net