How To Attract Women

How To Attract Women

I’m going to reveal the most fool-proof way to attract women. You want to attract women in droves so I’ll teach you exactly how to attract women. Think about this. Why do women you see out at bars and nightclubs sometimes dress so SEXY? Let’s think about it from the woman’s perspective: An attractive woman gets attention from men all the time, no matter WHAT she’s wearing.

Attractive women don’t have to “accent” their beauty in order to attract men. A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation to make herself “one cup size” larger. A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes. A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out, and puts on tons of makeup. AND FOR WHAT?

Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and effort, spending HOURS to get that “extra little bit” of beauty, when a woman already has “more than enough”? Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.
To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The Best Man

Let’s imagine that an attractive woman is getting ready to go to a party. There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred women at this party. If there are going to be a hundred men at this party, it follows that a few of those men are going to be the “best” ones.

She wants the “best” one… if possible. And that guy has OPTIONS. She needs to “fix herself up”, EVEN THOUGH SHE’S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL… if she wants to have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.

Competition From Other Women

This particular idea was one of the most interesting and surprising things I learned about women while I was educating myself about dating and attraction. Attractive women tend to be VERY competitive. While in Los Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called “The Bitch Look”. When a “hot” woman walks into a room, EVERYONE checks her out.

The “top guys”, who have options, glance at her and make a “mental note” to talk to her later. The OTHER hot women look at her and give her… yep, you guessed it…. THE BITCH LOOK. Why?

Because another hot woman is instantly seen as COMPETITION. A hot woman doesn’t want OTHER hot women competing with her for the “best guys”. So they give other women “bitch looks”. It’s competition, intimidation, and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package. So let’s just say that attractive women DON’T LIKE COMPETITION. In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX THEMSELVES UP… and emphasize their good points TO THE MAX. When an already-beautiful woman goes to the trouble to pick out just the right clothes… the ones that flatter her figure… and put on just the right makeup… in a way that draws attention to her finer points… and styles her hair… in a way that draws attention to her and frames her face, it puts her ABOVE the competition.
To Get The Most Attention And Approval

Now that we’ve talked about a couple of the underlying reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason that has the most VALUE to you. This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING beautiful women.

At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

It just so happens that an attractive woman has a SUBCONSCIOUS, but VERY accurate indicator of whether or not “the group” likes and approves of her. It’s the amount of ATTENTION she gets. If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps her feeling “OK”. She knows that on a deep, primal level when she’s accepted by the group and that she’s going to stay healthy and have a good chance of mating with a “top male”.

But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to it, and don’t they all?

Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals), attention and approval can lead to a literal ADDICTION.

It’s like money, fame, power… all the famous ones… YOU CAN’T GET ENOUGH. If you’re a beautiful woman who is always getting attention and approval from men and you meet a man who DOESN’T give you that attention and approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.

If the man you’re interacting with actively AVOIDS giving you attention, and gives you DISAPPROVAL in the right way, it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS. Attractive women don’t meet a lot of guys that could care less about her beauty, and instead see it as a “cover up” for some “hidden” thing.

If you want to learn how to ATTRACT women, then you need to get a clue about what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one of the most “desirable” men.

How can you do that?

Become rich and famous

or

Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt

or

Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.

Here’s the interesting thing when you attract women: When you do it, she can’t CONTROL it.

When you attract women, I’ll guarantee you that she didn’t “THINK about it and DECIDE to feel it”. I guarantee you that she can’t CHANGE IT by THINKING ABOUT IT. And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER this “automatic and subconscious” physical and emotional response called attraction IS? It has something to do with these two concepts we’ve been talking about: ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

If you’re interacting with an unusually attractive woman, it’s VERY important that you don’t communicate to her that you are “overwhelmed by her beauty”… or that you can’t control yourself. Furthermore, if you actively control the amount of attention that you give her… and you don’t show her “approval” too quickly (and even show her some DISAPPROVAL)… you’ll often create a POWERFUL interest inside of her.

Why is this?

Well, think about it for a minute. You’re the hot woman walking into the “sausage party”. For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk up to you and say, “You’re really hot” and “Can I get you a drink?”

Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can’t stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you make it clear that they would be willing to do anything for you.

Then you meet a guy that isn’t like any of these other guys AT ALL.

He’s clearly not impressed with your beauty, and he’s even busting your balls. You can’t tell if he likes you or not, and you feel CHALLENGED by him. For some reason you can’t explain, you’re starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him. NOW what do you do? That’s right: You give him all of YOUR attention and approval… hoping that he will give YOU some in return. In other words, you switch from the one being pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.

This is how you attract women. You become the pursued, which is an art form. When you attract women you have more control in your life. When you attract women you feel better. When you attract women you can focus on things that matter. As you attract women you’ll notice a difference in everything. Why? It’s why we exist.

If you’re new to seduction and dating you owe it to yourself to check some videos of David Deangelo, he’s a big name around here.

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How To Approach Women

How To Approach Women

You should realize before you approach women that most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing: Dumb look, compliment. Also, you can’t BORE when you first approach women. If she’s most likely got a boring life like everyone else, and you do something that every one of the other 499 guys she’s going to walk by this month did, then you’re probably not going to attract any special attention. If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.

This is fun, isn’t it? Bet you never thought you’d be thinking like a woman, did ya? What are a few things you might do to? Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring, predictable, “nice” loser guys that have approached her? And BE interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice in her life?

As you may have already predicted, I have a few more ideas (but don’t let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance). To start with, you’d probably want to get rid of the “Wow, you’re a beautiful woman, and I’m just an average guy admiring you” vibe. That’s not helping. Next, you could take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might act, then choose that style.

My experience is that if you take an attitude of “I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let’s see if you have a personality to match your looks”, then stir in a generous portion of Cocky and Funny, you’re likely to do well.
A Sample Conversation on How To Approach Women

Here’s a variation of something I’ve used myself once or twice.

YOU: “Hey, can I ask you a quick question?”
[leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow]

HER: “Sure”

[pause.. pause.. pause for suspense]

YOU: “Are you single?” [stone cold straight face]

HER: “Well, um…”

YOU: “I’ll take that as a yes…” [nodding, sly smile]

HER: [Laugher]

YOU: “Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you… if you’re more than just a pretty face, that is… He’s funny, has great taste, and I think you’d like him… I’d love to sit down and get your life story, but I’m on my way somewhere… do you have email?” [very cool, calm tone of voice]

HER: “Yes.”

YOU: Great… [takes out pen]… write it down for me, and I’ll have, uh [clears throat] HIM send you an email.”

[Get email and get her phone number and wish the lady a good day.]

Now, let’s talk about what just happened here. First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that “I’m not worthy”? I said, “Hey, can I ask you a quick question?” in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and mysterious tone of voice (your body language is a VERY important component of this approach).

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Cocky and Funny

Cocky and Funny
Why You Should Be Cocky and Funny

It just doesn’t make sense to some guys that teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc. could or should make them feel attraction. I can understand this because I was exactly the same way the first few times I heard cocky and funny and saw cocky and funny being used. I kept thinking to myself, “If I do this cocky and funny thing, I’m only going to come across as arrogant… and that can’t make women like me more.”

Well, was I wrong.

You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn’t logical. It doesn’t follow the rules that it “should” follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful emotion that has reasons and triggers that don’t make any sense at first glance. I’m sure you’ve seen many attractive women with guys who mistreat them, abuse them, and were exactly the opposite of what you’d expect a woman to accept.

Why?

ATTRACTION. In the beginning she felt attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no amount of being “bad”, abusive, or jerk-ish can convince a woman, feeling a strong attraction to a guy, to leave. So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit about the cocky and funny attitude, why it works, and how to use it to attract women (without having to be an abusive jerk). First of all, you have to remember that the formula is Cocky AND Funny. Always both.

If you act too cocky, you’ll only come off as arrogant and insecure. If you’re just funny, always telling jokes, and making people laugh, you will probably come across as “too goofy.” But if you use BOTH together, you will create magic. Cocky and funny is like sparring… it’s sport… it’s fun… it’s challenging… it’s interesting when used with skill. So let’s get clear about what “Cocky and Funny” is.

Here’s a cocky statement:

“Her dress makes her look fat.”
A Cocky and Funny Statement

“If she doesn’t find a dress that fits better, the fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team for her ass.”

Get it?

Start with arrogance, then add humor. So why does it work to attract women? Well, the short (email newsletter size) answer is:

COCKY AND FUNNY ATTRACTS WOMEN BECAUSE IT QUICKLY AND DIRECTLY SAYS ALL THE RIGHT THINGS ABOUT YOU.

Women are attracted to “alpha male” types – We all know that. Women are attracted to a sense of humor. We all know that one too. Women AREN’T attracted to men who give away their power, kiss up to them, smother them with attention, act like whipped puppies, and get nervous just being in the same room with them. And by the way, giving away power to women is a much more complex topic than using humor, etc. If you meet an attractive woman, and IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about something, busting on her, and having fun, it basically says to her:

“You are interesting enough to talk to, but you’re going to have to do a lot more than just look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn’t make me nervous in the least, I’m perfectly calm, and in fact, I’m so comfortable that I just noticed something about you that I’m going to make fun of…”

There is no faster way on earth to communicate all the right attitudes, beliefs, self-image, comfort, confidence, and power than to be cocky and funny. Once you start using this attitude, you will be totally astounded at the results. Here’s a low-risk example:

Next time you’re at the grocery store in the checkout line paying for your groceries, say: “So how much of this cash do you get to keep?” (as you hand her the money)

She’ll probably laugh and say: “None… I wish.”

To which you can respond with: “Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%… I assumed you were rich and could support me, but now I’m not interested… I want a rich girl.” (Turn up your nose)

This is a great one. It’s always fun to ask a woman if she’s rich or famous, then when she says that she’s not, tell her that it messed up her chances with you, and that you’re not interested anymore.

Cocky and Funny Do’s and Dont’s

One of the keys to the cocky and funny attitude is to never “crack.” If she opens her mouth and gives you the “I can’t believe you just said that” look, you need to turn it up a notch…

Most guys will crack and say “Oh, I was just kidding.”

DON’T DO THAT! It makes you look like a wussy. In the example above, if the checker looks at you and gives you the open mouthed “I can’t believe you said that” look and says, “Hey! I may not be rich, but I’m nice!”, you just look at her and say “Nice isn’t good enough, I need RICH AND nice.”

Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her, and acting cocky and funny so that it ignites the magical challenge/attraction mechanism. And once you can see that you’re getting a good response from a woman, GET HER NUMBER. Or get her email. Don’t stand around like a dork trying to make her laugh. As you become better and better with these tools, you can then begin “extending” the conversation… increasing the attraction… and taking things to the “next level”. So get out there and use it, because the magic formula of cocky and funny will create all kinds of good things for you. You’ll see. And if you’re reading this right now and thinking to yourself “I really need to learn how to master this cocky and funny thing”, then I AGREE!

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